Also, ask your partner to remove the Victoria’s Secret catalogues from your access. For example, avoid going to Hooters (cause really their food isn’t all that good, and you can get the wings to-go). Avoid situations that will cause temptation.If that new person/object might tempt you, keep bouncing until you land on something that doesn’t. Quickly bounce your eyes to something else.
THE BOUNCE EVERY MANS BATTLE TV
This counts for people, print ads, billboards, tv ads or shows, movies, etc. When you see something that might tempt you, you’ll know it immediately.When I say this technique is simple, I mean it’s simple: I must admit, I got this technique from an awesome book Stephen Arterburn & Fred Stoeker titled Every Man’s Battle. However, I’m not going to say it’ll be easy, but if you’re walking on that ledge and want to jump into a better, healthier relationship with your partner AND yourself, then practice this techique often: That’s why in this article, I’m going to teach you something very simple. It takes your focus away from your wife or girlfriend and puts it on someone who isn’t yours to think about. You can think all you want that what goes on inside your head doesn’t hurt others, but it wears away at your relationship. I’m talking from a worldly view from both my own as well as other’s experiences. I’m not talking from any religious standpoint here. You can add the things you’ve heard or even said to that short list if you’d like, but it all boils down to one thing: looking lustfully at anyone other than your own girlfriend or wife hurts her and your relationship with her. “As long as I don’t touch, I can look all I want” Heck, I’ve even said them in my past, but after marrying and growing up a bit (mentally and spiritually) I made the decision that I wouldn’t think that way. One of my cousins is moving to South Carolina with his girlfriend (nice young girl) and he said some things I heard often growing up, going through college, and well into my adult life.
So, this past holiday weekend I spent some time with my family, hanging out and chatting.
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